Friday, December 24, 2010

Oh My ......

It was one cold dark evening.. the whole world rested in peace.
Everything was calm and quiet. I decided to visit my uncle's house as he was not feeling well for many days.I went to his home and saw him lying on Bed. Now days, He is not able to sit even .. so most of the time, he pass by sleeping on bed.
I felt pity on him and wanted to make him comfortable . so, I started a healty and happy conversation with him.But He was looking very dull that day and due to cold weather, he wished to sleep peacefully.
He was suffering from Fever from past 5 days and that day, he was much better but not upto the mark.

One small Old T.V was there in the room which I had never seen ON in my life and may be no one tried to.I thought to switch it ON and wanted to watch some songs.
My uncle was sleeping and he never woke up even if I place loudspeaker near to his ear.
I was busy searching channels and then I stopped on one. After few seconds, I heard an another voice from back
and when i looked back.............
I saw my uncle standing.......  it was like a dream to me, tears roll down ove my eyes.....and then He started showing some dance moves.I felt myself blessed as i was watching him dancing and looking very happy after a long time.I felt overjoyed that day and hold his hands to let him dance easily.
Then, suddenly i recognized the voice coming from TV which made my uncle to stand and dance.
She was none other than our sweet singer Voice- Sunidhi Chouhan who was singing
 "Shiela...Shiela ki Jawaani.., I am too sexy for u " and Sexy & spicy Katrina was showing  her dance moves in that song.
That day, Shiela (Katrina) made me and my uncle really happy.
Oh, my shiela... If you had came 10 years back.. my uncle would never be on bed and keep on dancing with your moves.
So this "Shiela ki Jawaani "has become really a wonder for my Uncle's Home..

(Today he is practising new Shakira moves ... to beat Katrina :).. Good Luck Uncle !! )

Cheers...........

Thursday, December 16, 2010

Namma Bengaluru !!

Hi Readers,

Here I am again to tell you something or eat your head asusual (if you have it !! ).
So, I have completed one year in Bangalore.........Namma Bengaluru..... Yahoooooooo (Its not a promotional line for yahoo company !!).
Bangalore, as i told you about it before also.. here i am adding my 1 year city experience in this post :) .

Bangalore, a city which is mixture of different cities, cultures , languages etc. A place where you can speak any language with any person because neither he will understand nor you except english (Thanks to Britishers)
In this one year, I learned a little bit kannada language and now I blank my eyes less while talking to any localite and feel happy to recognize those unusual words.
For me , it is a place of opportunities for which so many students come every year to fulfill their dreams so language doesn't matter to them.

If we discuss about food, Idli has become favourite breakfast for me  and finally i got to know the names of those unseen recipes and vegetables. I tasted so many south india dishes.. some were really good , some were speechless (because i am not able to swallow it even !!) and some were botanical experiments. and Now I can proudly say that I can eat any type of dish without making faces.

The weather of this city is ausome and I am enjoying the cold weather of Bangalore under a fan having speed-2 (Its hot here!!) . Rains are unpredictable here and it generally happens when you are going somewhere wearing a new dress and sandals too (Nice experience !!)
In this year, so many new names added in my orkut, facebook , linkedin accounts and among them some are my friends too. It feels great to meet my old friends here because they remind me of my orign (chole-bature, mirchi pakodas etc etc) every month.

I truly admired this city now for its transport as i have written 2-3 posts in Bangalore local buses and also listened whole FM radio show
while travelling. These buses gives you immense time to think and write(very slow) peacefully (even 4 persons are standing over your head !!). Daily I face 12 speed breakers and 3 traffic lights while going to office at a distance of 3.5 kms.

I liked this city so much that i never get annoyed so much when the local people celebrated Karnatka Rajya Utsav by playing loud hip hop
kannada songs from morning 6'o clock to night 11'o clock on SUNDAY (yes, it "was" my beautiful sunday !!)
I was not able to understand the meaning of songs and that was the best part but still i was able to dance on its beats (OMG....Horrible day !!)

When i came to this city, i was different but now I am one of them having Company Tag , Sitting in office cafetaria with a bunch of people and eating rice with hands daily .(I learned here thats it tastes different to eat rice with hands !!).  People here are very nice and that i can say after 1 year also (few exceptions are everywhere !!)
I am presently staying in a PG and its fun to meet new people with different belongings, Its North or South.. People are almost same with same soul.
If we talk about festivals ...then.. I celebrated Pongal more than Holi , Ugadi festival more than Diwali here :)

Yeah this city is really a Garden city and now it has become necessity for couples here (censored images !! )
When I walk on streets (without any kind of fall !! ), I like to see new people exploring this city and they remind me of my time when i came here 1 year back.

At last, Rest all are same... like Sun rises in the east and sets in the west.
This was my almost 1 year experience in Bangalore-city of dreams.Now, i am going to explore this city more in upcoming year
and will give you updates !!! Have a great year ahead.

Cheers.

Monday, November 29, 2010

pukaar

कश्मीर की वादियों में एक छोटा सा जहाँ बनाया था मैंने ,
उस घर को प्यार और अपनेपन से सजाया था मैंने .
हर तरफ खूबसूरती का आभास  था वहां,
खुशबू में भी ज़िन्दगी का एहसास था वहां .
बच्चे मुस्कुराते हुए घर आते थे वहां ,
अपनी ढेर सारी  बातें सुनाके जाते थे वहां .
ज़िन्दगी के हसीं सपने जिए जा रही थी मैं ,
एक - एक पल ख़ुशी से बिठाये जा रही थी मैं .
चारो तरफ पानी की लेहेरें बात करती थी मुझ से ,
आती जाती लुका छुपी खेलती थी मुझ से .
फूलों में नए रंग भरे थे उस दिन ,
वह भी मुस्कुराने लगे थे उस दिन.
बादलों से घिरा हुआ यह शहर था मेरा ,
ज़िन्दगी को रोशन किये हुए जहाँ था मेरा.
सब तरफ सुकून था यहाँ,
सब तरफ अमन था यहाँ .
हर दिन एक नया सवेरा था , हर शाम एक अनकही दास्ताँ थी यहाँ .
एक खुशबू महेकती थी हवा में ,
एक प्यार का एहसास था सबके दिलों में .
फिर एक रात ------
जाने क्यूँ फूलों  से मुस्कराहट चली गयी ,
जाने क्यूँ मेरी ज़िन्दगी आंसुओं से भर गयी .
जाने क्यूँ वह लोग आये और तबाह कर गए ,
जाने क्यूँ पंछी अपने जहाँ से उड़  गए .
 ना जाने कहाँ वह अमन गुमनाम हो गया ,
ना जाने कहाँ वह प्यार खो गया .
एक रात में यह शहर राख में बदल गया ,
एक रात में सब कुछ उजर गया .
जाने किस बात की सजा हमें मिली ,
जाने किन गलतियों ने हमारी ज़िन्दगी ले ली .
काला कपडा दाल कर आये थे वह लोग ,
काली कर गए मेरी  रातें - मेरा दिन वह लोग .

आज भी यह सवाल पूछने के लिए भटक रही हूँ मैं ,
आज भी मेरा कसूर जान ने के लिए तड़प रही हूँ मैं.
क्या जवाब दे सकोगे तुम मेरी इस हालत का,
क्या खुश रह सकोगे तुम मेरा सब कुछ ले कर .
मिति में मिलना है सबको एक दिन,
यह दुनिया छोड़ के जाना है सबको एक दिन .
तब क्या इस ज़मीन के टुकड़े को अपने साथ ले जा पाओगे  ,
तब क्या उन  मासूम बच्चों की जान वापस दे पाओगे  .

इस दुनिया में राज़ करने वाला कोई और है ,
इस  को चलाने वाला कोई और है ,

भूल गए तुम
भूल गए तुम .......

तुम्हारी आत्मा

Wednesday, November 24, 2010

Hope to FLY !!

Hi Folks,

After a long time, I am writing this post. I was also busy with festivals,occassions from past 15 days and now got time for myself.So I hope, everyone enjoyed Diwaali, Id, Gurupurav and now waiting for Christmas and New Year. I want to share with you a very short story which helped me in some way and hopefully u will also get to realize some things in your life.
I was walking on road and was enjoying coolest day of the year. I was in my own world and syddenly a small girl of age 6-7 years came in front of me. I was going to fall over her but i stopped me then I said "Sorry" to her and she replied me with a very cute smile. I don't know her and totally apart from her world. She was a stranger for me but after this incident she definately become a part of my blog.
Some times these little incidents happen with us make us feel good and leave a mark in our life. and we also don't know that how will it affect their lives too.So  many people , so many happenings, so many wishes, so many lives... the city is crowded with people and their moments.
Some times a little effort done by someone reduce the heaviest burden of our life and you feel blessed. It will not be a coincidence or a matter of chance, somehow its written somewhere and you just have to understand omens.
I read a Novel named "Alchemist". It was really a master piece of work and I truly appreciated the work done by author-Paul Coelho.
In this novel, he told us how to believe on our inner beliefs which we hestitate to come up with.
When we were kids, we dream to become Big and now we scare to dream and think about negative possibilities for it.Dreams will stay dreams if you will not shape them in your reality. We never scared to scream, to jump , to play , to fight, to say what we think etc in our childhood but now we scare to do these stupid things, we scare to face people and most important we scare to fly !!!
Don't scare to get fail in your dreams because ofcourse its your dream and you can do anything in that.

GO...... WALK......RUN....FLY and fulfill your dreams because this is your life, your world.. but don't forget to make anyone happy in a day like that girl did for me . Understand your omens, Give blessings to others and do whatever you wish for and make this world a place to stay and accomplish.

Cheers !!

Thursday, October 14, 2010

Ek Din ..

Ek din.....

Aaj baarish bahut hai.. arey seema jaraa darwaaza band karnaa... arey yeh kapde nhi sukhe abhi tak
kal kanpur jaana hai... koi dhang se kaam nhi karta.. bas mujhe akele hi sab dekhna padta hai !!

aur yeh puraane newspapers kaise padhe hai yahan...inhe kaun saaf karegaa...
yeh kya hai.. (ek panna jo gir gya.. aur uske haath mein aa gya)

"Bhula diye maine woh pal jab hum saath the aur mehakti thi hawaaon mein woh baatein

Bhula diye maine woh pal jab tum mere pass the aur mehsoos kar sakti thi main tumhari saansein

Bhula diye maine woh pal jab tum aate the aur tham jaate the mere kadam

Bhula diye maine woh pal jab tum gaate the aur ruk se jaate the mere saare ehsaas

Bhula diye maine woh pal jab tumhari aankhon se sivaa kuch naa the meri duniya mein aur har jhalak pe doob jaaya karti thi main

Bhula diye maine woh pal jab hum do nhi ek hua karte the aur bas pyaar hi pyaar hotaa tha

Bhula diye maine woh pal jab kehne ko bahut kuch hota tha par rik jaate the mere hoth tumhari hasi dekh kar

Bhula diye maine woh pal jab main tumhare sapne dekhti thi aur jeena chahti thi main tumhare saath apna kal

Bhula diye maine woh pal, woh tumhara ehsaas, woh tumhari muskurahat,
woh tumhari baatein,woh tumhari saasein bas bhula naa paayi to woh KAL jo tum mujhe de gaye.... "

Tabhi ek 5 saal ka ladhka khelta hua aaya aur bolaa" Maa!! kya kar rahi ho??"
Aur woh bas itna hi keh paayi " kuch nhi betaa.. kuch puraani yaadein saaf kar rahi hun"

Friday, October 1, 2010

Beautifully Yours !!

Beautiful.. when we heard about this word.. we start dreaming about the things around us.. which makes us happy.. and had to be admired by us.
For Boys it can be new mercedes benz.. and for girls it can be a new pair of shoes.
We all like beautiful things , we like to admire them, to adore them, to keep it with ourself, to make it our life's high possesion.We love them, we miss them or we keep on talking about them, We like what our eyes grasp beautifully and like to stay in its own aura.
But do we ever think about those ugly things we left or pass by without even looking at them.
We never wish to keep ugly things in our life and not even bother to talk about them.

Likeways if we talk about people..
we generally talk about people blessed with beauty and never admire the ugly person standing next to you.
It depends upon the way we see the world through our minds but not through our eyes.
If mind says.. she / he is beautiful/handsome we will gesture her/him but what if he/she not?
Most of the people will not even notice him.Its because of our mindsets and behaviour towards others.
We usually justify a person by his outer personality.. and we never try to know his inner soul if we don't want to.

But you never know in your life which person plays a great part  in your life and take you beyond your expectations.Its like those marbles.. which you have not ever consider to play the game and afterwards they become  a part of your winning in life.
"Love the people as the way they are, Because everyone has something to be admired"
We should respect the person by his inner soul not by his outer personality.. as atlast we all are children of same and only one GOD.He has made us all.. and he didn't differentiate between us.. then who are we to create boundaries between us.

Ask yourself.. See your inner soul.. you will find so many defects in yourself..as nobody is perfect.
so think before neglecting any person on the basis of his personality or defects in his body.
Because every person is gift from GOD and you are insulting him.

The better way to learn is  learn from a 10 months old kid.. who is unaware of these things , who is a pure soul sent by god like you and me.He is the best teacher in whole world... who make you  think that everyone needs equally love, respect and care as you want in your life.He will show you that sometimes small things done by you for other person will lead you to a big  and bright path in your life and will
give you ultimate peace.

Everyone is a gem in this world... and beautiful in his own way !!! You just have to explore them. !! Wish you good luck !!

Wednesday, September 8, 2010

She is a Woman

This is not my composition.. and i not even  know the name behind this but i truly appreciate the way it defines a simple word i.e " WOMAN". Hope you also agree with me.!!!


Tomorrow you may get a working woman, but you should marry her with these facts as well.

Here is a girl, who is as much educated as you are; Who is earning almost as much as you do;

One, who has dreams and aspirations just as you have because she is as human as you are;

One, who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you or your Sister haven't, as she was busy in studies and competing in a system that gives no special concession to girls for their culinary achievements

One, who has lived and loved her parents & brothers & sisters, almost as much as you do for 20-25 years of her life;

One, who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her home, people who love her, to adopt your home, your family, your ways and even your family ,name

One, who is somehow expected to be a master-chef from day #1, while you sleep oblivious to her predicament in her new circumstances,environment and that kitchen

One, who is expected to make the tea, first thing in the morning and cook food at the end of the day, even if she is as tired as you are, maybe more,and yet never ever expected to complain; to be a servant, a cook, a mother,a wife, even if she doesn't want to; and is learning just like you are as to what you want from her; and is clumsy and sloppy at times and knows that you won't like it if she is too demanding, or if she learns faster
than you;

One, who has her own set of friends, and that includes boys and even men at her workplace too, those, who she knows from school days and yet is willing to put all that on the back-burners to avoid your irrational
jealousy, unnecessary competition and your inherent insecurities;

Yes, she can drink and dance just as well as you can, but won't, simply Because you won't like it, even though you say otherwise

One, who can be late from work once in a while when deadlines, just like yours, are to be met;

One, who is doing her level best and wants to make this most important, relationship in her entire life a grand success, if you just help her some and trust her;

One, who just wants one thing from you, as you are the only one she knows in your entire house - your unstinted support, your sensitivities and most importantly - your understanding, or love, if you may call it.

But not many guys understand this......

Please appreciate "HER", She is "WOMAN"

Thursday, August 19, 2010

One memorable ride

I believe that life is valuable and each day is a blessing from GOD.On that evening I realized power of prayers and my faith on him(GOD) become strong.It was my first day in B'lore and i was about to leave from my workplace.I was totally new to this place, unawared of people, languages,roads, addresses etc.
It was around 10:00 pm and i have to leave from my office to go home. My home was around 25 km away from my office
I become worried to reach home safely and Unfortunately , I have to go by my own convenience.

I just pray to god and asked an Auto driver standing in front of a shop and he took 15 minutes to refuse me.
At that time, i felt value of every minute slipping from my hands.
Then suddenly, one Auto came in front of me (like a Hero Car generally comes to rescue heroine in bollywood movies) and the driver asked me " Madam, Kahan jaana hai aapko?" and these words in hindi made me feel really gud even if he called me aunty at that time.I told him my address and enquired about money etc. He nodded his head in "YES" and it gave me a feeling as if i won a jackpot.

Auto got started with a loud musical background effect (it was musical for me at that time).It was really a adventrous ride for me.I was little bit worried about time, but more busy about thinking tricks "how to defeat him, if something happen wrong to me".At that night,I passed lot of traffic lights(Why they made so much in bangalore), lot of speed breakers(even on Flyovers), etc. Weather was nice asusual and i felt glad when i saw some autos like mine having a girl.

I was enjoying the night view of bangalore city and then suddenly auto driver turned back to me and asked " Madam, left or right ?"and it was the worst question asked to me in my trip to home.
 I tried not to show my blank and puzzled face and i threw the same question over  to him with confidence and little bit arrogance "Aapko nhi pta kahan jaana hai, pehle kyun  nhi btaaya? " (angry expression). He become more puzzled than me and took left.I closed my eyes and start remembering all prayers i had learnt so far from my truly devoted grandpa,grandma,maa and other family members.

Then after some time, i saw a red building and it looked so beautiful to me that
I literally jumped from my seat and gave signal to auto driver towards right.
He also became cheerfull and happy(may be finally he will let me down to my place safely)
Finally my ride or night sight seeing ended up after 2.5 hours and i reached home.
I thanked to him and myself for not trying those stupid tricks over him.

On 11th Aug 2010, I got a mail regarding " Meter Jam on 12th August, Do come and participate" .
The mail came as a request to not use Autos on 12th august because of their opposing behaviour,
 But when i remember this incident,I feel thankful to that Auto driver who took effort at late night to help me out.
I don't want to let him down and make those girls (like me ) unsafe due to this " Meter Jam".
Thanks to him.



Thursday, August 5, 2010

A Girl I met

Some people are very different in this world.They act very differently to their surroundings.They don't show their feelings, emotions and concerns to anybody or may be they are like that..who don't have any concern about others.
They will become a part of your life for some time, but they know the art to move on from your life.They  show their bold strong character from outside and its become difficult to figure out their soul from inside.

Few months back, I met a girl , who never show her emotions , concerns,feelings in front of anybody.She also has a small heart but you will never get to know what is there in it. She is princess of her own world,having her own rules,having her own people etc. She will not let u go inside of it easily.She will not care about you, your beliefs , your life until you are meant to her.She will sit beside you and you can't estimate the things going around her.

When i met this girl, I thought that after some time she will become like one of us but today i realized that
she is different, she was different and will stay different from others.
You have to spend more time with her to figure our her true image. She has become mystery for me now.
Yeah,she is teaching me a lot in an unusual way. Sometimes it hurts but i am learning day by day from her.
I was very sensitive before i met her but now i am finding new ways to explore myself, to control my emotions,to not let others disturb me, to stop this cruel world affecting me. Its true,I am becoming a stone hearted person.

For some cases, its good but for some its bad.
"Time resides unseen measures or situations for me.. so Lets see, what i get from this new change in me."
Wish me luck !!

Wednesday, July 14, 2010

Baarish !!!


Cham chamaati bijli ke saath,baadlon ko cheerte hue.. yeh boondein jab chehre par padti hai...
ek ajeeb sa ehsaas,ek ajeeb sa sukun de jaati hai aur phir man karta hai us jagah jaane ka.. jahan bas ho pyaar ka mausam.

Yeh man behka hua chalta hai un raahon par.. jo kisi ne naa dekhi ho ..... kisi ne naa suni ho.
Ek dor ki talaas mein firta hua.. manzilon ko dhundhta hua.. chal padta hai yeh man.

yeh baarish hi to hai jo.. humse hamara gum churaa le jaati hai...
bin bole hi.. sab kuch keh jaati hai.. .

Bheege hue se hum kho jaate hai aur phir ek aandhi aati hai jo humein jagaa jaati hai.
In aansuon ka sahara bhi to yeh baarish banti hai...
In tanhaiyon ka kinaara bhi to yeh baarish banti hai...

Ruk si jaati hai yeh duniya us waqt, jab tum aati ho...
dil ki gharaiyon mein pahunchkar... saare dard le jaati ho.

aaj phir se aai ho tum mere aagan mein...mujh se kuch lene aur dene..
par kya dun main tumhe o baarish .. "muskuraat koi aur le gya.. aansu tum le jao "

Friday, June 25, 2010

Smile Please


Hi Folks,

Today we will learn , How to prepare "Tea".
Ingredients: water -1 cup
Tea leaves -1 tbsp
Ginger-according to your taste
Sugar -1 tbsp
Milk- 1/2 cup

Method: First take hot boiled water and add 1tbsp tea leaves and ginger to it and again boil it.
After that take some sugar and add Milk to it. While preparing tea,you...............

HEY HEY HEY !!!!! This is not a cookery show or some food special article. Its my space and i can't let anybody to write anything. :)
Its turn out to be humour if we place wrong things at right time.Its make a cherished memory, if you do right things in wrong manner.

Its a good way to start anything,if you move on from your past because nobody rely on you for lifetime until you want it... (ohh serious line)
Humour makes you strong to bear those old boring and nonsense things. Its life.
Its better to stay away from those who admire the seriousness of their life because they will give some hazardous threats in your life
after some time.Everybody should have a kid in themselves that make them happy and relax from their daily troubles.

We all have a funny bone (a tiny one) in us but some of us try to break it and like to take life seriously.
Its better to take it as it comes to you and be satisfied .Life give you many gestures to stay happy and be alive for others.

No one is perfect and this is the best thing in you. You have some defect to laugh and stay happy.
The person who laughs upon himself is the most strongest person in the world.
So go yaar and find your defect and make it a reason to laugh. :)

Life is not about money, power, kids etc.... Its life dear..... make it cheerfull and happening before it went off.
Keep smiling until your jaws bear it and be happy until you bear it.

"Have Fun" should be our motto of life because it will act as a recharge of your dumb battery.
Charge it and keep rocking and do mistakes.

Cheers,
Tulika.

Monday, April 19, 2010

Evening in Bangalore


I was searching a topic to write from past few days then I met with this fun loving experience this weekend.
It was a very wonderful evening in bangalore,had lots of fun and share really a gud moments with each other.
A totally freaked out evening with gang of girls. Here sharing some moments with u :

We went to a restaurant "Chalo punjab"to had dinner and it was really ausum specially for those people who are staying away from their homes.
but we had great time there inspite of food.
Mixture of people were there with me at that time.. UP + Bihar + Hyderabad+ Kerala + Punjab +Tamil Nadu and ofcourse Delhi.
A funny incident also took place over there between a Tamilian and 5 Punjab supporters.Some scripted parts of that event:

(A phone rung.... Tamilian picked up the phone... started talking)
Tamilian (TN): @#$%$#@#%
Punjab Supporter (PS) : Hey don't talk in Tamil
TN : Why? (surprising expression)
PS: We are not allowed here.. don't u see board outside.... shut your phone now.. :)
TN: (phone got disconnected ) Ok.. But why?
PS: Its Punjabi Restaurant in South india so they want to spread their culture.
TN: Oh.. is it?
PS: ya bcoz dey are vanishing now a days...
TN: How?
PS : don't u know... dharmendra weds hema malini and boney kapoor weds sridevi.....
So punjabis are vanishing
TN:Ohh no... now... wat shud i do? why did u bring me here? (worried)
PS: its ok .. we won't tell them .. u were speaking tamil..
Afterall u are our dear friend... and we will take care of you. (caring behaviour)
TN: then fine... but do show me board when we leave..
PS: yups sure (all were showing a sympathetic smile...and nodding their heads)
and one more thing.. we have to do bhangra here.. when we about to leave
TN: Oh NO ( shocking)... I don't know how to do it.
PS: Don't worry.. we will show u... (All were raising both hands in air)
TN: But if i will not be able to do this then?
PS: Don't say this... if they get to know this ...that u are a tamil.. it wud be bad 4 all of us.
TN: ohhh ... ok

After 2 hours:
TN: Hey show me the board.. where is it?
PS: ok.. come wid me...
(no idea... wat to show her.. then saw a board in Kannada language)
Hey !! see that board... its written there.
TN: i don't know kannada... wats written ?
PS: (full enthusiatic) ... only hindi n english are allowed... no other languages.. (smiling)
TN: are u sure?
PS : ya ya ... ofcourse... come.. :D

(An incident... over which we laughed for hours.)

After that... we had a nice drink in barista..and enjoy some gud IPL match moments....
The rainy weather was ausum yesterday...I was not like that..i used to be...
I was shouting on streets, singing songs with gang, abusing bikers (who don't have silencers..),
walking...jumping in rainy weather.

But our evening yet not ended.. we went to icecream parlour...and had a cool icecream there...
It was really a enjoyable outing after a long time and first time in bangalore.. :)

Saturday, March 20, 2010

A story...


Lets talk about a story today !!!

There were 2 Kids , Salim and Rahul. They were very happy with each other. They like to spend time with each other.
They love to play,dance and study together. They were enjoying a very good time of their life

Now lets take this story in another way...

There were 2 Kids , Salim Sharma and Rahul Gulzar. They were very happy with each other. They like to spend time with each other.
They love to play,dance and study together. They were enjoying a very good time of their life.

Can u all see the difference in these two stories... ??
Is that difference can change the end of these stories.. ??

Yes, this difference of their names can change the whole story and their life as well...
They were same kids, having same feelings, having same language...
but yet they were not same due to their " sharma" and "gulzar" surnames..

When a child comes to this world.. he was put in such mythical rules of our society that he himself forgets his own humanity..

Who is responsible for this..everyone blames everybody.. but is it right?
we are equally responsible for this... we are the ones who create their names...who tell them society rules... who tell them to hate each other
Who the hell we are to destroy the sweet little childhood of these kids..

Can't we tell them to stay together forever? can't we tell them to stay happy with each other, to not hate each other...??
Can't we remove "sharma" and "gulzar" from their names?


But...... But.... But... we are so obbsessed with our dirty minds... that we left courage and hope to take any step towards it and put ourselves away from this.

If we take this story in a different manner, can u see their full names... salim sharma... abhishek gulzar...
Can't we make a nation like this .... undivided... unresentful... ?
Can't we have a healthy child with healthy mind and ofcourse healthy society to keep him happy!!


It totally depend upon you.. how to take this social crime and to divide nation in caste system !!!
Its better to change yourselves than to blame anyone for your own faults.

Its time to take action !!!

Wednesday, February 24, 2010

A Letter


Woh jaa rha hai, yeh khyaal aate hi ek aansu uske gaal pe tapak gya. Ab woh use kabhi nhi dekh paayegi... woh uska muskuraana, gaate rehnaa, pyaar se dekhnaa, ankahi baat samajh jaanaa.... uska ehsaas sab dhundlaa ho jaayegaa.......
kyun rok nhi sakti woh use.. aakhir kyun woh itni bebas hai aaj...
Baut dur jaa rha hai woh... uske saaye se bhi dur ho jaayegi woh...
Kya woh use kabhi mil paayegii... kya woh use kabhi dekh paayegii... kya woh use kabhi sun paayegii....

Kuch kehnaa chahti hai woh uske jaane se pehle:

" My Love..... (shayad phir kabhi naa bol paun)

Tum the to life mein ek khush thi jiska ehsaas mujhe tumhare jaane ke baad ho rha hai.
Tum the to jinaa aasan tha.. ab to har pal baut lambaa hai.
Tum the to aankhoon mein sapne the ... ab aansun ke alaava inmein kuch nhi...
Tum the to yeh duniya meri thi..ab paraayi si ho gai hai..
Tum the to raaste pe chalnaa ayaa .. ab ek kadam bhi bhaari lagta hai..
Tum the to ek nayaa ehsaas tha mere andar .. ab sab khaali sa lagta hai..
Ek andhere mein kho si gyi hun.. kaash tum aate aur mujhe apni baahon mein sambhaal lete...

Thankyou.. mujhe woh sab pal dene ke liye ....... jo main apne kareeb rakh saku......
Thankyou.. mujhe chodhne ke liye bhi.. kyunki.. ab maine jaanaa ki tum mere baut pass ho...hamesha ke liye..

Main hamesha tumhe yaad karungi us hasi ke beech jo tum de gye,
un aansuon ke beech jo tum de gye, un saason ke beech jo tum de gye.
Ab koi shikwaa nhi mujhe kyunki tum muhje khaali nhi chodh gye....
Only Yours Love "

Then she got a call from a person who gave her an envelope... addressing her:
Briana adams
# 234,7th street, Melbourne

Contents: Death certificate of Martin adams.

Sunday, January 10, 2010

Bangalore : A nice place to live and achieve your dreams.

Goodmorning to all,

I am presently staying in Bangalore.. so thought to write something about this city during my initial 2 weeks here.

Bangalore: Although the letters ‘I’ &’ T’ don’t come in this word yet it is full of IT Professionals and companies. Well some people call it “City of Gardens” but today while travelling i saw lot of playschools, bars, restaurants and of course IT Business parks. So, i would rather like to call it a “City of Business Parks”.

Bangalore a part of south India when anybody comes to hear, he/she thought of naariyal paani and banyan tree and this city justifies it. It is full of coconut and banyan trees.

The bad thing of this city is its endless traffic jams and lack of good transportation.Here life is slow in comparision to delhi but roads are well constructed and clean (which are usually not found in delhi) . No words to express the educated minds of people living here. Every person has now become a self-made computer software professional. An auto Rickshaw waalaa can also solve your problems related to software J. If we talk about showrooms, they are very big in comparision to delhi city and you will get lot of space to do window shopping.

I am writing this post in a bus and by this you can easily guess the speed of bus ( you can write easily).No one will disturb you not even jerks of bus.(very slow)

In aspect of fashion, very simple living and high thinking applied here. You can not judge anyone position by his clothes.Moreover you can not find good outfit for your north indian cousin’s marriage unless you go to any branded showroom.

You can see lots of restaurants on every nukkar having “Sagar” as their last name. One most important thing, you can easily communicate in Bangalore but if you want to read sign boards , you will become puzzled. People here are very cooperative (you can trust them) and i experienced that many times. Thanks to them.The ethinicity and culture of South India can seen here at every step and you definitely enjoy it !!!

Weather is the best thing over here, you don’t have to carry that big jackets or sweaters in January.A nice place to hang out with friends and family.

So this was my 3 hours bus experience in Bangalore.......yet exploring this city.

Friday, January 1, 2010

Naya Saal


Happy New Year
Naya Saal : Bahut kuch kehta hai humse yeh naya saal, nayi umeeden,naya utsaah leke aataa hai yeh naya saal. Kuch baatein yaad dilata hai to kuch bhulaa jaataa hai yeh naya saal. Kabhi kabhi hum sochte hain ki kaash waqt yunhi thahar jaataa, tham jaataa par aisa ho jaata to kahan se yeh khushiyan de paayegaa naya saal.

So Guys, you may be thinking that why i am writing in hindi,But i feel that expressions or feelings can be best explained through our mother tongue.I know that today we live in a globalized world but our culture will grow more in our language. So we should proud to talk in hindi to spread our social values.

Aaj ek saal ki shuruwaat hui, ek naya safar aarambh hua,phir se wohi tyohar,wohi din aayenge,kuch naye saathi milenge to kuch kho jaayenge.Yeh waqt yunhi humein bahut kuch de jaayegaa jise hum sambhaal bhi nhi paayenge.

Naya aakaash lagega,naya sawera jagega,sab kuch pehle jaisa hi hogaa bas alag hoga to woh hogaa hamara nazaria dekhne ka, mehsoos karne ka ,sochne ka aur bolne ka. Cheezein or insaan wohi rehte hai par humari soch din bar din badal deti hai unke maayene hamari zindagi mein.

Din aur raat bhi wohi honge par unse judi yaadein badal jaayengi.Kuch naye log milenge to kuch purano ke saath mehfil jamaayi jaayegi. Sab kuch wohi hogaa par bahut alag ho jaayega yeh naya saal.

Kuch sapne pure honge to kuch bikhar jaayebge lekin woh laut kar jaroor aayenge ek nayi aasha liye, ek nayi umang liye aur ek nayi taazgi liye.

Jaata hai jo waqt woh kabhi laut ta nhi par jo pal hum usmein khushi se bitaa dein woh anmol ho jaate hai. Aao sab milkar yeh koshish kare ki jo pal hum puraane saal mein nhi ji paayein woh yeh naya saal hamare liye lekar aaye, jo khushi hum nhi baath paaye usse jyada hum dusro ko de sakein, ek muskaan sabke chehron par laa sakein, ek sapna sabka puraa kar sakein, ek pyaar ka ehsaas sabke dilon mein jagaa sakein. Tabhi hamara yeh naya saal safal hoga, tabhi hum apne aas pass manavta faila paayenge aur ek acchi zindagi ji paayenge.

"Naya Saal Mubaarak ho"

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